Where has Sonja been??

Well I know its been a long time since I have gotten on here and accually wrote...well alots been going on...I started making little girls hair bows...so that has taken up LOTS of my time...also with 3 kids...who really has time. Not to meantion...I just started a new job. So I will start rambling now...lol

The hair bows are going pretty well, business is starting to pick up some. The kids are doing amazing. Ben will be undergoing testing for Aspergers. It saddens my heart that my baby may have it but hey at least we are getting it taken care of now. Also...he is pidgon toed...and his left leg is about and inch longer than the other....so we have been referred to specialist for that. Isaiah is well Isaiah. Learning more and more daily. His speech has dramatically changed...ALOT better. He is starting to potty train so now I have 2 in undies....lol. Kaydence is my lil drama queen. She must always have her way. And if she doesnt she lets the world know about it. (Just like her momma) I started a job at an adult toy store. Most people would never feel comfortable working in that enviroment...but to me...selling "bedroom toys" is quite easy.

Allen and I are doing ALOT better. We Are happy. He is treating me alot better...and we dont fight as much. Although we have had our disagreements, we are not arguing in front of the children. He is helping more around the house. But thats about it so here are some recent pics!!

REALLY!!?? CAN THIS BE TRUE??

Just to give you the back story on what I will be talking about here...When I was 20 weeks pregnant with Isaiah...I received a call from my doctors office telling me that I had polyhydroamnios- which is eccentually fluid build up around the baby. I was referred to The Perinatal Center of Oklahoma in Edmond. Everything ended up being fine, but they wanted to see me back when I was between 35-38 weeks pregnant. So I went back...found out then that Isaiah had hydronephrosis. Which is dialation of the kidney by urine that is not draining properly- that is my interetation of it. So when he was born...they ran an ultrasound on him to see if he still had it, In which he did...so we were referred to a specialist at OU Childrens Hospital. When they ran his first test and ultrasound...we found out he had PUV which is where the uriture is affected by the dialation. And he had kidney reflux. So we have been having routine ultrasounds, and studies done on him nearly for two years. Thats two years of antibotics. Two years of constant worry if my Isaiah was having kidney failure. Two years of wondering if his kidney was gonna change or would he have to under go surgery. Then about 3 months ago, the urologist that we see told me that if there was no change in Isaiah, when they did the studies, Isaiah would undergo surgery by the end of the year. This saddened my heart. I felt as if I had done something wrong while carrying him. With a new baby on the way I was so scared about losing one of my precious children.

Yesterday was the studies were performed for the 5th time since he has been born, the routine taping him down to the bed...making sure not to knock out the IV or anything (thankfully he tends to fall asleep on these) I just knew for sure that he was gonna have to have a surgery. We waited what seemed forever and a day in the waiting room and in the room. Then the doc comes in smiling...I am thinking OMG DUDE PLEASE TELL ME THIS IS NOT HOW YOU GET YOUR JOLLIES OFF, BY TELLING A MOTHER HER BABY IS GONNA HAVE TO HAVE SURGERY??? He asks how Isaiah is doing Allen and I reply good nervously to the doctor. (He is German, and speaks with an accent and is very good looking) He says well "The reflux is gone...so no more antibotics" Tears immediatly rolled down my face..."Even better news the debris he had in his kidney last time...is gone" By this time I was blubbering like a big baby "Now to the better and wonderful news, the dialation in the kidney is going down and shrinking." I hugged the doctor. No joke. I couldnt help it. I was so happy I couldnt keep the tears away. Then the doc asked if there was anything else wrong with Isaiah, and my hubby said well he is really clumsy. The doctor told Isaiah to lay off the beers. LOL and then told us a story of how when he was sick growing up his gramma and momma used to give him a shot or two of beer with sugar in it to make him better. Then Isaiah was like NO! Doc then replied "Ok 1 beer but after that you gotta stop man" This made my baby smile.

This is my first blog on here...So I will give some information about my family and I. My name is Sonja. I am 22 years old. I am married to a man named Allen. Together we have three amazing children, perfect in every way. Our oldest son Benjamin, is really smart. He is three years old. He knows his alphabet, how to count to 100, knows how to spell things, add, his address, our phone numbers, how old family members are, and has a very good vocabulary. Our middle child is Isaiah, he will be 2 soon. He is quite the character. He is and will be our troublemaker and our athlete of the three. He is not as advanced as much as Ben was at his age, but he is learning. I like to call him bulldog because the way he walks. Our baby, is our girl....Kaydence, she will be turning 8 weeks old this next week. She for sure has her daddy wrapped around her little fingers.

Allen is a kitchen manager at The Checkerboard Cafe and Bakery. He works alot of hours to support our family. It upsets me because he is gone all the time. I have no help with the children. He wants me to get a job but I dont see me being able to because he is gone all the time and the money I would make would just go for daycare. I am having a hard time potty training Ben. Its alot easier said then done. We are going on a full month of potty training. Well I guess I am gonna get off here for now....I will be back daily or every other day to post.